My date with F. is cancelled, likely permanently. His reason is that he has some drama in his primary relationship caused specifically by polyamory and doesn't know when/if it may be resolved. He expressed disappointment and frustration because there were "sparks" between us and this is now a lost connection.
Of course I think it's me - that I've said something wrong and of course I can't ask (how pathetic is that?)
So what can I do to turn this around?
1. I can believe that he cancelled the date for the reasons he gave.
2. I can continue to believe that he found me attractive and interesting.
3. I can be proud of myself for being truthful in all our correspondence about myself.
Rejection is inevitable. I just hope that I can learn to take it in stride.
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